Sunday, January 24, 2010

the MALE prostitute

"prostitution is a lady business typically but men are better at it naturally"

giving so much damn about our bodies. lets turn attention towards the soul. we all are rapist and at the same time we are being raped too. now a lady who does prostitution can not tell you that but believe me you are more fucked than she is. she is beautiful and she knows it. she knows that people will pay her well for that and she takes that too but it is you who prostrate everyday, everytime and at every place.

man has a sad story and saddest part is that nobody believe that he has the one, not even he. he is a natural hooker right form the beginning. girls take this profession by choice but he takes it naturally. first he does it for his parents and after that for a girl and money and for his kids and then for his name.

to feel sorry about men is something which is terribly missing. women are always too much concerned about their tangible assets and sometimes they even blame men for the long time of indulgence and carnality but it is the women who is more obsessed with the shape of the things.

physically it is not possible for a women to rape a man ( exceptions can be there) but mentally male is being raped several times by a woman in his life. This molestation can come in the form of natural rejection or infidelity or crushing male's feelings in the rotor of pragmatism that most of times serves as an excuse for the darkest con of a women. men ironically sometimes confuse prostitution with chivalry as he pulls chair for the girl to allow her to sit down or when he takes her bills.

recently one of my friends (male) who works for an IT firm gets a high priority assignment. he is a member of a four person team having two girls in it. as you may surmise he is working for the project for 12 hours a day. leaving home at 9 and coming at 11 in the night..but things get worse when two females of his team refuse to work beyond nine hours a day and their reasons consist of cliches as "i am a girl". guess who is prostitute here, definitely the boys!!..and worse nobody is paying them for this.

males are really pathetic , most of them are just the slaves of their carnal desires. get visual of a couple wandering in bangalore central mall and you will find that lady flirting with you but of course you are a considerate male and you think about the poor guy with that girl so you don't pay attention. disgusting it is when you replace that fellow by yourself. girls with options , you don't matter for them, in short you are being fucked.

the dowry - a dent in men's character. male is cruel, male is ruthless , male is a fucking asshole because he demands dowry. well i am against it too but i didn't get the logic put forth by the women. they say that men is bidding himself against his money , knowledge and power, well ladies you are also bidding yourself against your curves. bidding is a human instinct which can not be discriminated on the basis of sex as the parents of a girl look for the highest bidder for their daughter when they sail out to marry her. why don't they just pick up some poor and average guy for their girl. why it should be always somebody who is earning a lot.
and after all this it has been established that only men is responsible for the dowry system. again male is fucked up in the life.

male is a prostitute of nature. woman gives her body while man gives his soul. his tale starts when he study to get a degree that can ensure him a job and hence a girl. in this whole play he forgets who is he and what he wants to do. he prepares for exams , he gives interviews and tells the interviewer everytime how much interested he is in his firm. he works on deadlines, nobody offers him a seat in the bus even when he seems enervated. even the shopkeeper listens to the woman first and attends him later no matter for how long he is standing there. his love is always being measured against his desires as nobody seems to surmise that he has a heart too. his hesitation is often regarded as disrespect and in the end when his kids learn to fly by themselves he tries to keep up with them but he can't because kids by that time are too agile.

Nobody seems to think about man and his story.
he has been forgotten.
he has been destroyed.

and yet he is surviving because he is so good in trading.

i think this gives girls a reason to cheer about...

8 comments:

  1. "...girls take this profession by choice..."

    Not always...


    The post is strong, no doubt but even the women community will have 1001 things to say about how their bodies as well as their souls are raped, daily...

    By a medieval mother-in-law....by a 'Mama's Boy' husband...by a husband who loves liquor more than his wife...by a father in debt...

    Your post is metro centric or big city centric....in villages and everywhere else...women hardly get the opportune to study beyond class 4??? Why???

    Yeah agreed most city girls are bitches...but they are not a tangible parameter to judge the entire female community...

    In cities and in the IT industry specially..its girl on top....but then thats a major drawback of the men...isnt it??

    The girl has learnt tht...if she softens her tone, makes it mystical and tends to fall a lil bit on her managers desk...or fiddles with her dupatta...her manager will definitely give in the plea of 'I am a girl..i will work 9 hrs..or i need cab drop after 7pm'...

    Why cant the managers...or the men in high posts keep their urges and emotions in control be obdurate and refuse them???

    contd. after dinner !!

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  2. @ uddy..thnx for ur comment and time..
    i don't know about statistics and also i am not a misogynist so the point i am trying to elucidate here is that pain is universal ...why it is always that pain of a woman is blown completely out of proportion and man is thought to be stoical..why there is not a level field for both...!!..

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  3. Thats a fair point...


    Phir se thank u bola toh comment nahi karunga...

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  4. nice one parag.. in my opinion the problem is multidimensional... only the females are not responsible..... there are various things...


    nature has made them like that for their, as well as our survival....it goes to the instinct which is instilled deep inside human beings(i.e. reproduction):)

    my words may seem a bit greek or latin, but i think this is what, is the cause for their strange nature. what u say????

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  5. Don't you think you are comparing the characteristics of a MANGO and an ORANGE :D
    what ever you have written might be true to some extent but honestly i didn't like this post.I don't comment on your post because i find them an another way of thinking and don't want you to constrained your thoughts in my comments.
    Nothing is absolute. It's up to you what you see, how you process your thoughts.It might be possible that a deranged man like me can see a frame of bone skeleton instead of a beautiful girl with his X-ray gauge vision (aise mujhe dikhta nahi hai :D just for example).
    It is up to you what you pick.Life is beautiful,pick good things,good thoughts and you will enjoy.

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  6. @ satyanand

    i haven't asked anybody to change their perception and ideas towards anything and also i haven't uncovered mine.

    i have given here just the simple observations of human life and some of our propensities or you may say bias towards certain things.

    i just want to say 'what goes around comes around'!!

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  7. male is a prostitute of nature. woman gives her body while man gives his soul.

    This molestation can come in the form of natural rejection or infidelity or crushing male's feelings in the rotor of pragmatism that most of times serves as an excuse for the darkest con of a women.



    commendable .....

    @ commenters ( esc Sanjeev) : You don't need to compare what Parag said with what happens in villages and with average Indian male, and so concluding, "O Oh! its not correct, or its not complete ! that is not entire truth".

    of course that's not the entire truth. and neither is he trying to formulate a grand theory of nature or instincts.

    so to reduce a really practical and serious problem which is largely felt in modern urban Indian situations, to mere the faults of nature is myopic at best and foolish at worst.

    In my view, Its the problem within emerging social organization. and it will take time and a lot of oppression of men before being seriously taken into account by society.


    @ Parag: sir, i need your feedback. i have never commented on blogs before.

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